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Monday, January 6, 2014
Breastfeeding Guidelines for Pediatricians
I was recently emailed an article that I wanted to share with the blog readers.
This article was published in Pediatrics : The Official Journal of the Academy of Pediatrics almost a year ago, but as far as I know it is the most up to date recommendation from the American Academy of Pediatrics to pediatricians. The part that I found the most interesting was the section on the contraindications of breastfeeding(medical reasons why some people should not breastfeed). There were a few very specific conditions where it was unsafe for the mother to be around the child, but even in many of these situations it was still recommended that the child be given expressed breastmilk for his/her health.
No where did it say that children should not be breastfed because of low milk supply. I have heard from so many women that they were unable to breastfeed because of low milk supply. This article seems to indicate that "low milk supply" is medically speaking a non issue. I have heard this in the past from La Leche League leaders, but I was glad to see it from the American Academy of Pediatrics.
I also found the following statistics amazing. This is a direct quote from the article : "It has been calculated that more than 900 infant lives per year may be saved in the United States if 90% of mothers exclusively breastfed for 6 months.
In the 42 developing countries in which 90% of the worlds childhood deaths occur, exclusive breastfeeding for 6 months and weaning after 1 year is the most effective intervention, with the potential of preventing more than 1 million infant deaths per year, equal to preventing 13% of the worlds childhood mortality. "
When this sort of information is being given to pediatricians, how does it happen that they are still sending mothers home with formula samples and talking about "low milk supply"? How is it possible that in a literate society like the United States only 13% of children are being exclusively breastfed for 6 months?
The article also contains hopeful information about the goals that are being set to increase breastfeeding in this country and improvements in initial breastfeeding rates. I encourage everyone to read the full article. It contains useful information about a number of health issues that are positively affected by breastfeeding.
Here is the link to the article:
http://pediatrics.aappublications.org/content/129/3/e827.full.pdf+html
Monday, December 23, 2013
Can I have a Drink?
Breastfeeding and Alcohol Consumption
A response to the waitress fired for reporting mom drinking and breastfeeding.
http://www.nydailynews.com/news/national/waitress-fired-reporting-mom-drinking-breastfeeding-article-1.1532626
This story of a waitress being fired for reporting a mother to police for drinking while breastfeeding caught my eye. As a breastfeeding mother who enjoys the occasional glass of wine this story and made me worry. Do people judge ME because I drink as a breastfeeding mother?
The story reports that the waitress watched as the mother allegedly consumed drink after drink while breastfeeding her 7 month old baby.The waitress acted in the interest of safety for the baby. Unfortunately, we will not be able to hear the mother’s side until her trial but she does try to say that it's been blown out of proportion and she’s not a horrible person . Also, as for the waitress, she was let go from her job a few days after the incident. It seemed like the action against her was in response to her calling the police. Maybe it was not handled correctly according to restaurant policy or was there another reason she was let go?
As for “rules” on alcohol consumption and breastfeeding, there are some conflicting views. However, to simplify things I decided to go with what I saw on LaLeche League https://www.llli.org/faq/alcohol.html
The story reports that the waitress watched as the mother allegedly consumed drink after drink while breastfeeding her 7 month old baby.The waitress acted in the interest of safety for the baby. Unfortunately, we will not be able to hear the mother’s side until her trial but she does try to say that it's been blown out of proportion and she’s not a horrible person . Also, as for the waitress, she was let go from her job a few days after the incident. It seemed like the action against her was in response to her calling the police. Maybe it was not handled correctly according to restaurant policy or was there another reason she was let go?
As for “rules” on alcohol consumption and breastfeeding, there are some conflicting views. However, to simplify things I decided to go with what I saw on LaLeche League https://www.llli.org/faq/alcohol.html
As Dr. Jack Newman, member of the LLLI Health Advisory Council, says this in his handout
"More Breastfeeding Myths":
“Reasonable alcohol intake should not be discouraged at all. As is the case with most drugs, very little alcohol comes out in the milk. The mother can take some alcohol and continue breastfeeding as she normally does. Prohibiting alcohol is another way we make life unnecessarily restrictive for nursing mothers.”
Another great source is http://kellymom.com/bf/can-i-breastfeed/lifestyle/alcohol/
I personally do not drink and breastfeed simultaneously or for 1-2 hours following consumption and my daughter is just fine. Plus if it helps you to relax after a long hard day, a relaxed mommy is way better than a tense, stressed out one. The positive results can outweigh the potential negative ones.
For more details and information see the recommended websites as well as check with your physician or pediatrician.
What Would You Do?
If you noticed something that didn't look right involving a child and parent in public would you act to make it right or would you let it go thinking it's not your place? Was calling the police without first trying to speak to the woman the best response in this situation?
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Friday, December 6, 2013
Mom’s Night Out
Mom’s
Night Out
I
did something nice for myself the other night and it was much needed.
Local shop owner and self-claimed “mompreneur”, Jessica
Walsh of Illuminated Baby hosted a Mommy Mixer in Woodstock at Oriole
9. As stated in a recent article in the Chronogram, Jessica is
looking to create a community and I think she’s got the right idea.
http://m.chronogram.com/hudsonvalley/the-amazing-adventures-of-the-marvelous-mompreneurs/Content?oid=2214810&issue=2214726
She
really has a way of putting together a great group of people and
facilitating new friendships. When I arrived at the restaurant
I was greeted by some familiar and some new faces. I was then
directed to a table with name tags where I was to write my name, my
child’s name and age. This along with another of paper of questions
was an icebreaker type of game. Not seconds after I was done
putting on my name tag I was grabbed into a conversation with two
moms eager to fill in their sheets. “How old were you when
you gave birth to your first child?” one lady asked. “What month
was your child born?” asked the other, and then the next question,
and the next. Very quickly we warmed up and began chatting
away.
Even
though the intention was for moms to get out by themselves and be
with other moms, I did notice there were actually many women with
their sweet little ones and even some dads. The dads were great,
walking around chatting, taking care of babies while the women got
together, and just being supportive. Also amongst the crowd we had
doulas, midwives, and lactation consultants mingling about. I
met women who had just very recently given birth, some who had
toddlers, some stay at home moms and some who have returned to work.
I am tending to see more and more women
reinventing their careers to suit their family life. Jessica
Walsh, for instance, is a local shop owner who offers unique and
luxury baby products, is a lactation counselor and a community
breastfeeding advocate. She is able to be with her child the
majority of the time while still being very active in her career and
in the community. I met another mom who is a financial advisor and
she is interested in reaching out in the mom community specifically,
to give guidance and resources for the growing family. Another mom
uses her skills in knitting and crocheting to create hats and other
cozy articles of clothing.
I say I am among that group
of reinventors. I loved what I did before becoming a mom and I put
all of myself into it. Now that I have a child I cannot see myself
doing that anymore so I’d like to use my skills and talents in a
way that I can have a more balanced work and family life. I have so
many ideas and blogging right now is my great start to
where I want to be. For me having the independence to get
things done within a more flexible time frame than if I were in a
traditional work environment is most comfortable for right now. I can
be there for my baby all day and go out and explore the world with
her. In my downtime I can write.
The
Mommy Mixer was a great event and it was a nice feeling to talk with
other women who have a similar mindset to exchange ideas and
encourage each other to go for it.
Not
only did I walk away with a wonderful door prize of handmade baby
hats, I also walked away with a great feeling of confidence and
camaraderie. While I was gone, daddy and baby bonded and he was
able to put her to bed by himself for the first time. Win Win!
Monday, November 25, 2013
Brestfeeding Tent at the Farmer's Market
The Breastfeeding Initiative of Ulster County (BIUC) in New York had a breastfeeding tent every week at the farmer's market. With chairs and a baby changing table women felt supported. We had poster boards and markers and asked people to share their breastfeeding experiences. Here are some of the shares.
I make milk. What's your super power. 16 mos. n still going strong.
Hi! Brestfed my son for 2 years, he weaned himself, my daughter for 4 years. She weaned herself. The best time of our lives. Reggi
Breastfeeding promotes good maternal and child health and it's a wonderful bond between mother and child.
18 mos. and 17 mos. YES!
I nursed y son for three years, he is 40 now. He is very successful and very healthy! Never been really sick in his life. None of my friends breastfed but I persisted and loved it! It was the best part of having a baby. Susan Friedman
Go Breast Power! What a gift!
Breastfeeding is the best way to feed, nourish, and nurture your children.
Do it in the food court!
Ben breastfed many years ago -Now 24...years old!
Yeah; Mommy milk is breast/best!!!
Until 2 1/2!
Eric until 10 months Inez until 16 moths, Wonderful experience!
Rebecca Shea and Kaya Butterfly 2 1/2 yrs of Beboo!
I nursed my baby in line at a military commissary.
While walking along, giving a children's tour of a 100 yr old ship my little one in back pack climbed over my shoulder to nurse.
Nurse everywhere.
Nursed for 2 yrs- easy.
Breastfed three for a total of 3 years! Best for kids!
Power of women
Breastfeeding sucked my uterus back into shape.
I support this work. Joanne
Recycle yarmulkes as breast pads.
My sister nursed my niece- wonderful experience for both.
Recipe for healthy kids.
Cabbage leaves really work.
I nursed 2 children- (self weaning) for 9 1/4 years! LOVED IT. Very close with them as adults.
More to come in a future blog.
I make milk. What's your super power. 16 mos. n still going strong.
Hi! Brestfed my son for 2 years, he weaned himself, my daughter for 4 years. She weaned herself. The best time of our lives. Reggi
Breastfeeding promotes good maternal and child health and it's a wonderful bond between mother and child.
18 mos. and 17 mos. YES!
I nursed y son for three years, he is 40 now. He is very successful and very healthy! Never been really sick in his life. None of my friends breastfed but I persisted and loved it! It was the best part of having a baby. Susan Friedman
Go Breast Power! What a gift!
Breastfeeding is the best way to feed, nourish, and nurture your children.
Do it in the food court!
Ben breastfed many years ago -Now 24...years old!
Yeah; Mommy milk is breast/best!!!
Until 2 1/2!
Eric until 10 months Inez until 16 moths, Wonderful experience!
Rebecca Shea and Kaya Butterfly 2 1/2 yrs of Beboo!
I nursed my baby in line at a military commissary.
While walking along, giving a children's tour of a 100 yr old ship my little one in back pack climbed over my shoulder to nurse.
Nurse everywhere.
Nursed for 2 yrs- easy.
Breastfed three for a total of 3 years! Best for kids!
Power of women
Breastfeeding sucked my uterus back into shape.
I support this work. Joanne
Recycle yarmulkes as breast pads.
My sister nursed my niece- wonderful experience for both.
Recipe for healthy kids.
Cabbage leaves really work.
I nursed 2 children- (self weaning) for 9 1/4 years! LOVED IT. Very close with them as adults.
More to come in a future blog.
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Good Morning America Breastmilk
Breastfeeding in the news
Just
when I was thinking the world was mine. Just when I’m thinking all the
world can breastfeed freely in public…. I saw a piece on Good Morning
America covering the topic and they were emphasizing a spot in the movie, Breastmilk, with the man who is uncomfortable with women nursing in
public. Then it hits me! We still have a lot of work to do to make
breastfeeding normal and commonplace.
Here is the link to the ABC news blog in which the story is covered.
They’re
actually talking about the documentary by Ricki Lake and Dana Ben-Ari
and they’ve chosen to focus on the husband who confesses his
embarrassment about seeing women, even his own wife, nursing in public.
Ricki Lake was quoted, "I believe this film will start an
important conversation about how we can better support all new mothers,
whether they breastfeed or not, and evolve to a place where
breastfeeding is not so politically charged." I agree this is raising some good public discussion. The
comments section on ABCs blog shows some interesting ideas from the
general public. Many people are supportive and just ask that mothers be
modest or discreet about it. The people that have a hard time
separating the sexuality of the breast from feeding an infant seem to be
the ones who are embarrassed by it the most and would rather it be done
in private or completely covered up.
I agree with Mother
of two and Café Mom contributor, Sasha Brown-Worsham, who breastfed
both of her children. She can only hope, as quoted in ABC's blog, "The
more that women do breastfeed in public, and are able to do that, the
better, because it normalizes the situation," she explained.
"I’m just going to keep on doing what I’m doing and feel happy and
blessed that in this very supportive community that we live in, in the
Hudson Valley of NY, that I have not yet had any confrontation about my
public breastfeeding. Lets keep supporting each other and educate those
who are confused about feeding babies".
Friday, October 25, 2013
Breastmilk The Movie
Marie
Breastmilk is a truly amazing film that was screened October 4th at the Woodstock Film Festival. This film is so revolutionary that it is difficult to describe, so I will start by paraphrasing the film's official website: Director/producer Dana Ben-Ari, after the birth of her first child,
became fascinated with breastfeeding then decided to cover the subject
of breastmilk and breastfeeding, after the birth of her second child, on
film. The intent of the film is to provoke discussion and examine why,
while breastmilk is touted as the best thing for babies and mothers, are
there still so many women who are not successful at exclusively
breastfeeding for the recommended first 6 months or more. (www.breastmilkthemovie.com)
The
film followed the stories of several different families and
their experiences with breastfeeding, or obtaining breastmilk for their babies. In addition to the wonderful images of happy nursing babies and
toddlers,there were thought provoking and delightful images, like a
child drinking her mama milk with a straw while blowing bubbles into it and a
mother adding breast milk to her morning omelet. The film sadly shows however, that there are still issues in
our society surrounding the subject and perception of breastfeeding.
Nursing in public is sometimes seen as obscene, and all too many of the
mothers struggled with the fear of not producing enough milk. These mothers were
advised to supplement with or completely switch over to infant formula
by medical professionals or by well-meaning but misinformed
fathers. Some women simply lacked the confidence and support to
continue to breastfeed. One of the younger mothers, in the end, stated that going to school and working made it too difficult
to successfully breastfeed and pump even though she tried and her
initial plan was to breastfeed. She ended up exclusively using formula
fairly early on.
I
found the story about a lesbian couple from Australia who co-nursed
their daughter to be fascinating. The non-gestational mother was able
to induce lactation naturally and they both successfully shared the
nursing duties. It was amazing to hear their story. I knew that with
hormone prescriptions lactation could be induced ,but I had no idea that it could be done without any artificial hormones or drugs. This couple also shared their feelings on nursing and
how different Americans’ attitudes toward breastfeeding are from
Australians’. They couldn't understand how so many American women seem
to have supply issues. They speculated that it is a cultural issue because milk supply issues are almost unheard of in Australia.
The movie also gave a glimpse into the challenges low income mothers face by showing a
discussion between a WIC counsellor and a mother. The mother was at a WIC office to obtain a
new formula for her child because she had been allergic to a few of the
others she had tried. The counsellor asked the woman
if she felt confused about the messages sent by WIC about breastfeeding
because they offer free formula. The mother felt that her decision to use
formula was very clear and there was no confusion at all. A community
educator from WIC who is very pro-breastfeeding mentioned that it would
be interesting to see what would happen if WIC no longer offered
formula. Would it force more women to at least try to breastfeed? Did they really want to “force” women to breastfeed? She knows all
they can do really is offer the info, educate, and support the women’s
choices.
There
was also a wonderful montage of bountiful squirting lactating
breasts of all sizes, shapes, colors and amounts of milk. It was a
great representation of how every mother and baby are similar but
unique. We mothers have a kinship but we can all mother differently and
still have great thriving families just the same.
At
the Q&A portion of the evening with the film maker, one man stood up
to say that he thinks that men will LOVE this film. Secretly I groaned
inside thinking, “what a pig”…and then he redeemed himself by saying
there is so much a man can learn from this film. He felt that men will be
fascinated by the “mechanics” behind lactation that they might not
otherwise be informed about. I was excited to hear that, and I totally
agree that if more men saw this it would help society see breastfeeding
as normal and there would be more support for it. A successful
breastfeeding relationship between mother and child largely depends on
the partner’s comfort level with it and overall support. One family in the film
spoke about how when they became pregnant the father’s attitude totally changed.
This self described "rock and roll slacker" suddenly kicked into full gear to work hard and provide
for his family. Once the baby was born he did all that he could to
make sure the mother was taken care of so that she could do what she
needed to do for their child. That was the best example of fatherly
support I could imagine.
Overall,
I think the movie points out that in society ideas about breasts are
all over the place. Are they sexual, are they mothering, are they
comforting, are they for babies? I think that the answer is that they
are all these things and that’s wonderful.
Saturday, October 5, 2013
“The Mom-mune”
As
I’ve said before, everyone needs a little support once in awhile and I
found the best circle of moms to turn to. No, I didn’t just happen to
have friends who all had babies around the same time together. I did,
however, have one co-worker/friend who gave birth 2 months after I did.
She had to get back to work much sooner than I chose to so that makes
things a little awkward between us. What I did end up doing was
reaching out in the mom community. To use a term my friend coined, I
needed to create a "mom-mune". You know, a commune of moms to turn to.
In
the first month I hit some bumps in the road. I was on an emotional
roller coaster, a touch of postpartum depression mixed with SAD, in the
frigid month of January. Motherhood was not a magical switch that turns
on after you hold and nurse your baby for the first time as I had
hoped. Everyone was always asking how I was doing and saying how amazing
it must be to be at home with our baby. I would say it was great but
really I felt, well, a bit scared. I was only going to have help from
my mom for a little while and my husband was going back to work in a
week. Anytime someone close to me said something nice or asked how I was
I would cry. My first line of support my first week alone was my
chiropractor and friend, Emily. She is a mother of 3 and heard in my
voice that I needed some help; mother’s intuition. She, without
hesitation, told me we are going out to lunch tomorrow. That was it, she
was the one who got us out of the house. After that I realized I
cannot stay home feeling so isolated and expect to get better.
I
searched for and found my local La Leche League group. I arrived to
the meeting late even after trying so very hard to get out the door
early enough. I walked in wearing my darling daughter, clumsily
carrying a diaper bag, and water bottle then just melted into a puddle
of tears when I tried to introduce myself to the group. I had been
struggling with night feedings. It was a combination of having a
difficult latch on the left side and a lack of sleep. Everyone looked
at me and I felt so much compassion and understanding from everyone
there. Evidently, I am not the only mom who's ever had some difficulty
adjusting to this new role. The LLL leader Donna Bruschi is also a
board certified lactation consultant. She took some extra time to work
with me after the meeting to help me figure out some good night nursing
positions and even let me stay for a much needed nap.
I
also have to say Facebook has been a great way to connect for me. I
was chatting with a lady in a local shop who was admiring my baby girl.
-Something I’ve realized, babies are great conversation starters. You
can’t be shy for long if you go out in public with your baby.- This
lady was telling me about how her daughter is always looking for new mom
friends and we exchanged information. Two days later on a beautiful
spring morning I got a phone call from this mom saying she and some
other friends were meeting up for a playdate at the park and I should
join them. After meeting everyone, there were a few ladies that I
connected with. We wanted to stay connected so we found each other on
Facebook. They also told me about a social mom’s group on Facebook as
well as a nursing mother’s support group right at our local hospital.
Since that day I believe in the importance of surrounding yourself with
other wise women for fun, support, and friendship. We still organize
outings together and we share so much information and really help each
other. I know that if I really needed someone just to come over, I have a
commune of moms.
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Wednesday, September 18, 2013
Introducing Jenn C.
This is the second post from Jenn, (she also wrote the NIP post.) She will be the main blogger at Nursing Mothers Welcome. Jenn will be speaking to you about her personal breastfeeding journey and about news and events that relate to the mission of Nursing Mothers Welcome.
It was the week before Mother’s day 2012. I had a positive pregnancy test. I could hardly believe it. “This might actually happen for us after all,” I thought as I ran to show my husband of 7 years. After a few much needed confirmations from bloodwork to early sonograms we were on our way to parenthood, due January 15, 2013. It took us over three years to have a successful pregnancy. As the baby and I grew, my husband and I would talk about our plans for the future and how we would raise this child.
Mission
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Our Mission is to have breastfeeding become more accepted and respected world wide by showing images of discrete breastfeeding so that future generations grow up knowing that breastfeeding can be done anytime and anywhere.
Our Mission is to have breastfeeding become more accepted and respected world wide by showing images of discrete breastfeeding so that future generations grow up knowing that breastfeeding can be done anytime and anywhere.
It was the week before Mother’s day 2012. I had a positive pregnancy test. I could hardly believe it. “This might actually happen for us after all,” I thought as I ran to show my husband of 7 years. After a few much needed confirmations from bloodwork to early sonograms we were on our way to parenthood, due January 15, 2013. It took us over three years to have a successful pregnancy. As the baby and I grew, my husband and I would talk about our plans for the future and how we would raise this child.
The thing at the top of my mind was
breastfeeding. I would think how wonderful it would be if I could
breastfeed successfully. Whenever people would ask me if I plan to
breastfeed I would reply that I would at least try but there was this
seed of doubt in my mind about it. I only knew what my mother told me
of her experience with breastfeeding me and my sister. I found in my
baby book that my mother kept at day 3 after I was born she started
me on formula. She told me that she could not breastfeed. She was so
afraid I was not getting enough so she fed me formula that way she
knew I was at least getting fed. I assumed that maybe it was
something inherited that I would most likely fail at breastfeeding
too. I did not take into consideration that my mother may not have
had a whole lot of positive breastfeeding support and encouragement
at that time. I was looking at an article in the journal of nutrition
called The Resurgence of Breastfeeding at the End of the Second
Millenium by Anne L.Wright and Richard J. Schanler. They cited from
studies conducted in 1972 (in the era when I was born) showed that
initiation to breastfeed was on its way up to around 55%, however
mothers that continued to breastfeed into the 6 months mark dipped to
a low of around 23%.
http://jn.nutrition.org/content/131/2/421S.short#sec-1
Numbers are showing now that with more
support and education regarding the benefits of breastmilk in 2009
the CDC surveys show that 76.9% of mothers initiated breastfeeding
and at the 6 month mark 47.2% had continued to breastfeed.
My husband was my first and most
important line of support. He reminded me not to set myself up for
failure before I even started. If I am to succeed I need to think
positive right now so as my pregnancy went on I began to proudly
state that, Yes I AM going to breastfeed this child. I believe in
the importance of breastfeeding to give my child her best start. I
learned that breastfeeding can reduce the risk of diarrhea, asthma
and ear infections as well as reduce the risk for obesity and
diabetes. Even more, I was surprised to learn about the benefits
breastfeeding has for the mother too! Breastfeeding enhances mood,
helps you to bond with your baby, it burns 500 calories a day and
reduces a mother’s risk for certain types of breast cancer because
breastfeeding brings a woman’s breast into full maturity. I was
armed and ready to go!
Once my baby, Francesca Rose, made her
appearance four days early on January 11, the hospital encouraged me
to have her latch on as soon as possible. There was a lactation
consultant available, the nurses helped us and the hospital
encourages the mothers to have the babies room in. My doula, who was
a successful mother of 3 breast-fed babies, came to check on us once
we were home. She was a huge influence in my life as I had watched
her start her own family before we even got started. She offered me
some wonderful advice so as to not feel so overwhelmed. She said the
job of feeding the baby is top priority and it will take a lot out of
me, so do like the baby does- Sleep, eat, feed, change diaper and
nothing else matters. Stay on the couch and let my husband take care
of me and the menial household chores.
Whenever I was unsure of something or
just needed encouragement I had a number of resources to turn to for
help from doulas, and other mom’s, to my husband, lactation
consultants, and the web. It really does take a village, ya know, so
don’t be afraid to ask for help. I cannot say enough about having
a doula or a lactation consultant to turn to. Included is a link to
Doulas of the Hudson Valley
http://www.doulasofthehudsonvalley.com/our-doulas.html
and breastfeeding resouces from the Breastfeeding Initiative of
Ulster County
http://breastfeedingulstercounty.wordpress.com/ucbf-resources/lactation-consultant/
Tuesday, September 10, 2013
NIP Nursing in Public
NIP
My
thoughts and feelings have changed and grown regarding breastfeeding
since I began this journey with my baby. We are now at 8 months going
strong and counting. My breastfeeding goal is for at least 1 year and
to go with baby-lead weaning. I’ve had great success with babywearing
and co sleeping as tools for bonding and picking up on breastfeeding
cues. I feel confident in discreetly nursing in public now because of a
baby carrier.
One
of my first NIP (that’s Nursing In Public) experiences was
nerve-wracking but an overall success. When my baby was almost 3 months
old we went on our first grocery shopping trip just the two of us. I
had just recently figured out how to use a Moby wrap as a means of
carrying or wearing my baby. As soon as we walked into the store with
the shopping cart she began to bob her head and route around. I guess I
didn’t feed her right before we left the house. I decided to put this
wrap carrier to the test and attempt nursing while wearing her and
shopping.
I
quickly scurried into the restroom to figure out how to position her
while looking in a mirror to see if I could make it look not so obvious,
got a good latch, then off we went into the brightly-lit super market.
I was so afraid someone might realize what I was doing and have
something to say about it. I had heard stories of people being harassed
for feeding their babies and I was not that confident yet to endure any
criticism. I was avoiding eye contact with people as we passed in hopes
that they wouldn’t look or notice. Nobody said a word and in fact a
few women who saw me nodded at me approvingly and with silent applause
encouraged me to do what I had to do while going on with my everyday
activities. I left that day feeling like I could do anything.Monday, September 9, 2013
Kudos to Chronogram!
Kudos to Chronogram!
This months Chronogram magazine, dated
Sept. 13th has a wonderful photo of discrete
breastfeeding. The photo shows two women, in a crowded public place,
nursing children. There is very little breast showing in the photo,
and none at all in the foreground. It looks very natural and unposed.
The photo is in the “While You Were
Sleeping” section of the magazine. This section of the magazine
reprints news items that did not get much (enough ?) attention in the
mainstream media. The picture accompanies some recent data about
breast feeding's ties to intelligence in children. It also talks
about health benefits for nursing mothers.
You can check out the photo and
information at Chronogram's website, or by following this link.
Monday, September 2, 2013
Inspiring Breastfeeding All Stars
The Breastfeeding Initiative of Ulster
County had their one year birthday party at the Kingston Farmer's
Market during breastfeeding week. Successful mothers,helpful fathers,
agencies, businesses, and individuals all joined to be honored with
certificates, “Nursing Mothers Welcome” DVD's and cake and
cookies. Senator Tkaczyk was represented, she has been a
breastfeeding mother and said she would love to help.
One highlight was a mother who was
honored for donating to a milk bank. Women were also celebrated for
longevity as nursing mothers, and breastfeeding in difficult
circumstances. Supportive fathers were nominated for awards by their
wives, and many excellent community organizations like WIC, La Leche
League, YWCA, BIUC and Northern Dutchess Hospital received awards.
Here are a few of the inspiring stories
that resulted in nominations:
Shelia Dvorak: An amazing mother who in
the face of severe adversity and health problems continues to drive
long and far to obtain pumped milk for her daughter.
Shaquoia Hilton: A young mother who
successfully breastfed through a year in a homeless shelter while
working towards independence. She is now pumping at work and is a
true model of inspiration.
This letter was sent in to nominate
Miriam Pickett :
I'm nominating Miriam Pickett for
breast feeding me and my sister in the 1970's for goodness sakes!
When my mom was pregnant with me, her
mother was very sick. She knew that she would probably pass away but
she wasn't sure if it would be before or after I was born.
She went into labor on Rosh Hasshana
and her mother was making a big dinner to celebrate. My mom didn't
want to let on that she was contracting because she didn't want to
excite her mother and put her into cardiac arrest. My mom actually
went food shopping, cooked dinner with her mom and sat for a big
dinner, all while she was having contractions! So eventually she
couldn't hide the fact that she was in labor. I was born 4 weeks
before my due date and my mother and I were separated after I was
born. They actually knocked her out and she doesn't remember the
delivery at all. She said she woke up and I was gone and her mother
was dying. Her mother passed away two weeks after I was born. My
mother was depressed. She had planned on breastfeeding me, but as she
put it her milk ”dried up” while she was depressed.
So, cut to the funeral then sitting
shiva at her fathers house. She was sitting there and I began to cry
( as babies do at the most annoying times) and her mother in law, my
father's mother, picked me up and carried me into another room and
shoved a bottle in my mouth. My mother watched this, became extremely
pissed off, snatched me back and put me to breast. The rest is
history!! She nursed me exclusively after that. She built up her
supply and never used another bottle again.
Please send us your inspiring nursing stories and or photos we can share. We want to encourage nursing anytime, anywhere!
Wednesday, July 10, 2013
BF birthday party
Happy Birthday to BIUC Breastfeeding Initiative of Ulster County
Aug. 10th at Kingston Farmers Market starting at 11am.
Aug. 10th at Kingston Farmers Market starting at 11am.
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